Relationship prep before you commit
Matching gets you in the room. These questions help you see the truth you cannot see alone — conflict, money, kids, sex, in-laws, spiritual leadership, and the hard work of becoming someone a covenant can hold.
Self-truth inventory (private)
Start with yourself. The self-truth inventory asks about your own patterns: your share of past breakdowns, repeated failures, your blame reflex, why you want someone, and your capacity to repair. It is private and never shared with a match. The point is to see your part before you demand theirs.
Couple milestones
Once you have accepted a connection, walk through milestones together as the relationship deepens, or jump to any topic that is live for you:
- Early connection
- Deepening
- Serious or exclusive
- Covenant prep, before an engagement
How it works
Your written answers stay private, like a journal of the conversation. The real work happens face to face. Progress is tracked for you, so you can see what you have faced and what is still ahead.
Questions
Does my match see my self-truth answers?
No. The self-truth inventory is private to you.
Can I do relationship prep before I have a match?
Yes. The self-truth inventory is open anytime. Couple milestones open once you have accepted a connection.
Also on Aligned Souls
- Guided conversations — Start with real questions instead of “hey” — a guided journey and starters drawn from your match card.
- Honest match cards — Every match names where you align, where you will challenge each other, and why you could grow together.
- Dating journal — Private pages with daily prompts and discernment questions for after time with someone.